But also it kinda sounds like this guy is a player. Because you said he was more into "hook-up's" then a relationship. Just know thats its very rare to have the ability to change someone. Very few girls can do it. Hope for the best but prepare for the worst.
Ive had guys who claim that they didnt want a relationship. So i know how you feel. Yes, it sucks but you will get over it. Just DONT hook-up with him because thats not gonna make him want you more, it will just show that your easily taken advantage of. Boys know when they have control. NEVER UNDERESTIMATE THEM.
So take a chance, the worst he can say is no.
Dont be afraid of REJECTION.